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Asha Sanaker's avatar

They aren't the same mythology, but your words on supposed "malefics" and "hard aspects" reminds me of research on how people who believe unequivocally in soulmates respond to conflict or discomfort in relationships. Hard aspects can be deeply uncomfortable, in my experience. I have a lot of them. So, learning to sit with discomfort and look for its lessons has been important for my development, in both character and power/agency. Assuming that discomfort is bad could have easily led to my interpreting such things as curses, which would have cheated me of both.

Similarly, research has shown that people who believe strongly in romantic soulmates often interpret garden-variety conflict or difficulty in relationship as a "sign" to exit because, clearly, this wasn't "meant to be." If it were destined it would be easy and blissful is the assumption. But that posture cheats us of the depth of intimacy that can be gained by working through things together. If we're willing to sit in the discomfort, rather than running away from it, there is always so much to be gained.

Isabella Lewis's avatar

I love your astrology, Rob. Have been following your weekly horoscope for years. It may actually be you who unwittingly directed me to meet my future husband when I read my horoscope one day and was stopped by an expression I didn't understand ( I was born and raised in Paris): " Don't be a fall guy". Didn't know what it meant, asked the first person available at the coffee shop I had just walked in...and the rest is herstory...the Stars being absolutely aligned... As a fellow Cancerian, (July 22...), I particularly resonate with your Cancerian readings...I also deeply resonate with your perspective on the Sky...I could go on dreamingly but I will stop for now. Thank you deeply. Isabella

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